Conversations
Touch, Move, or Inspire
Indicators of enrollment: touch connects, move shifts action, and inspire opens a new future.
Notes onclarity, practice, meaning, change
Short pieces on the distinctions that change how a thing is seen — written by the people doing the work.
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Throwing Your Hat Over the Wall
Committing first, without knowing how, so that action and creativity are called forth to fulfill the promise.
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Story
Story is an interpretation about what happened. The human tendency is to collapse the story with what actually happened.
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Standards
Standards are benchmarks for performance or integrity, useful when distinguished from ideals.
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Sharing
Sharing is authentic speaking that reveals yourself and keeps possibility alive, often producing enrollment.
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Shadow Side (of Strong Suits)
Strong suits can produce results, but when relied on unconsciously they can limit intimacy, fulfillment, and authenticity.
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Responsibility
Responsibility is a declaration of being cause in the matter of life—not fault, praise, or blame, but what is so and the stand you take.
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Reason / Reasonable
Reasons justify acting or not acting. A reasonable life is confined by justifications; transformation invites being unreasonable for commitment.
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Realm of Survival / Realm of Enrollment
Survival is automatic, reactive, and past-based. Enrollment is generative: sharing possibilities that inspire action and contribution.
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Problems Worthy of a Life
Rather than insisting there should be no problems, choose problems worthy of your life and play to win.
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Principles
Principles are self-declared fundamentals that orient action, such as integrity and responsibility, distinct from reasons and justifications.
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Payoff (in Rackets)
The payoff in a racket is the hidden advantage for keeping a complaint and fixed way of being in place, such as being right or justifying.
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Occur / Occurring
Occurring is how people and situations show up for you—your interpretation—distinct from what happened.
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Listening
Listening is a state of being that filters what is said and unsaid. Becoming present to already-always listening restores choice and power.
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Informative Learning
Informative learning accumulates knowledge and skills within an existing worldview; transformative learning reshapes the worldview itself.
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Ideals
Ideals are internalized standards of how one should be; when confused with authentic being, they can generate pressure or inauthenticity.
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I / Identity
Identity is a story invented about oneself from early decisions and patterns taken on to succeed or cope—the source of strong suits.
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Force (vs. Power)
Force encounters resistance and must be maintained to hold results; power produces outcomes that fall into place and remain without struggle.
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Empty / Meaningless
Life has no inherent meaning; meanings are made up in language. A concise distinction on empty and meaningless.
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Disappear
To disappear something is to eliminate it—for example, to disappear a complaint.
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Cost (in Rackets)
The cost in rackets is the impact of reactive ways of being, often showing up as losses in affinity, vitality, self-expression, and fulfillment.
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