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John Welwood coined spiritual bypassing for the use of spiritual ideas or practices to sidestep unresolved psychological issues. The term should not be redefined to mean transcendence itself.

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Spiritual Bypassing Names Avoidance, Not Spirituality

Spiritual bypassing describes the use of spiritual ideas or practices to avoid emotional pain, responsibility, or difficult parts of ordinary life. The issue is avoidance, not spirituality itself.

Meditation is not bypassing simply because it brings calm. Prayer is not bypassing simply because it brings comfort. The question is what happens next: does the practice help someone meet what is difficult more honestly, or does it become a way around it?

Spiritual practice can support care, reflection, and change. It can also be used to explain away a conflict, neglect a need, or avoid repair. Keeping those possibilities distinct makes the term useful.

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