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Being is the stance from which we act. Two actions can look alike while coming from different places: defense, curiosity, care, or the wish to be seen a certain way.

That distinction does not make behavior unimportant. A way of being becomes visible in what we do and how we respond when the situation changes. Transformation reaches further than a new habit when the stance giving rise to the habit also shifts.