Ordinary Life Does Not Need a Persona
A persona gives us something to maintain. The knowledgeable one. The spiritual one. The successful one. The transformed one. The person who has figured life out.
Ordinary life does not require any of those roles. There are meals to make, messages to answer, people to listen to, work to do, things to repair, and mornings in which nothing dramatic happens. A person can be deeply serious about inquiry without performing seriousness.
They can have convictions without turning every conversation into a demonstration of them. They can live well without making their life an argument for a lifestyle. This kind of ordinariness is not an achievement beyond other people. It is a reduction in what has to be displayed.
When the persona becomes less important, more attention is available for the actual encounter. Nothing mystical has to happen. A person simply has less image to protect. Ordinary life is allowed to be enough.