Being Ordinary Can Make Humility Possible
There is nothing wrong with wanting to excel. A difficult craft deserves practice; a worthwhile ambition deserves effort. Trouble begins when achievement has another job: proving that we are exempt from being ordinary.
Then a success may bring relief without bringing rest. The standard moves. Another person does better. Recognition fades. What was supposed to establish our specialness has to be established again.
What humility changes
Humility does not require a smaller view of our abilities. It asks for a more accurate view of our place among other people. We have gifts and limits. So does everyone else. Being one person among many does not cancel the value of what we can do.
That recognition changes how we enter a room. We can learn without treating correction as humiliation. We can admire another person's work without using it as a verdict on our own. We can contribute without needing every contribution to distinguish us.
The possibility in being ordinary is freedom from an unnecessary performance. Excellence remains available. It no longer has to rescue us from our common humanity.