Occurring is how people and situations show up for you—your interpretation—distinct from what happened.
How a situation occurs to us is how it shows up through our interpretation. The event and our experience of it are connected, but they are not identical.
Distinguishing the two does not dismiss what we feel. It gives us room to ask what happened, what we added, and whether another response is available.
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