Loving a Life Does Not Require Liking Every Circumstance
Loving a life is sometimes mistaken for approving everything in it. That standard makes love of life nearly impossible. A life can include grief, illness, conflict, mistakes, unfinished work, unwanted conditions, and real reasons to change course. None of those facts requires the whole life to become unlovable.
The distinction is between valuing the life and preferring every circumstance within it. Preference says: I would like this part to be different. Love of life can say: this life remains worth inhabiting while I work on what needs to change.
That is not forced gratitude. It is not an instruction to tolerate abuse, neglect, or preventable suffering. It simply removes perfection as a prerequisite for valuing what is here.
We can repair what is broken without declaring the whole life broken. We can want something different without making the present worthless. A life we love may still contain things we do not like.