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Personal does not always mean unique. A conflict, grief, or fear can be ours in its exact history and still belong to a pattern other people know.

Seeing that wider pattern may relieve the belief that our difficulty proves we are uniquely defective, trapped, or alone. It does not make the particulars less important.

“Other people have it too” can be dismissive when used to shut down pain. The more careful movement is expansion: this is happening to me, and this is something human beings face.

The first statement preserves specificity. The second can restore perspective. A personal problem can remain personal without becoming solitary.