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Conviction Is Not the Same as Winning the Argument

An argument can be won while the possibility underneath it remains invisible.

We produce better examples.

We expose inconsistencies.

We answer objections.

The other person runs out of replies.

Victory.

Except nothing important may have moved.

Conviction is not the same as winning the argument.

Standing for an idea includes how we embody it when disagreement persists.

If the idea is generosity, contempt for the skeptic weakens the demonstration.

If the idea is openness, refusing to hear objection contradicts the stand.

If the idea is responsibility, blaming the audience for not being persuaded gives the game away.

Argument has a legitimate role.

Claims need reasons and evidence.

Bad ideas should not be protected from criticism by calling themselves possibilities.

But some things become credible through conduct as well as explanation.

The question is not only whether we can defeat the opposing point.

It is whether the way we stand makes the idea more available to examine.

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