Read andreflect, consider, revisit, returnreflectconsiderrevisitreturn

Being complete with the past does not mean the past has changed or that every feeling about it has disappeared. It means what remains unfinished has been faced rather than left to silently organize the present.

A conversation, acknowledgment, repair, or boundary may still be needed. Where none is available, completion can still mean telling the truth about what happened and no longer requiring a different history before we act now.